In our culture, we spend hours daily for developing academic knowledge, building our physical structure, deciding about our studies, and so on but when it comes to choosing life partner spend very little time and many agree only because their parents want to where later it affects the quality of our life. I don’t mean that parents guide us in a wrong way but to them, it might seem to be good but it’s actually not as the saying says
“All that glitters is not gold”
A father or mother is not an expert in a relationship. They advise us with what they know and what they have seen and experienced. Around them, there might be partners who got succeed in love and some who fail in a relationship that does not mean that choosing life partner on your own will lead a wrong way. So let’s just have a look over some important things to be considered when choosing your life partner.
• Having common desires, so then you will not have any problems in future
• Find the yin to your yang-Having someone who is strong to handle your situation when you’re weak because that will help you in all the situations
• Never expect the same feeling from your partner
• Explore the similarity as the saying says “Opposite poles attract each other”
• Never expect your partner to change for you
• Make yourself comfortable with them
• Don’t just love them, like them because, Life partner is for the rest of your life and it will hopefully be too long
• And mainly, look for good partnership than chemistry
So the decision of choosing a partner is yours and only yours. And no matter whom you choose make sure he is worth it and don’t decide on your own, convince parents and make them understand because they are damn special to you forever.
“Your choice of life mate will impact every aspect of your being and the person you choose to partner with your life is one of the most important decisions you will ever take”.
