The happy times of being together and enjoying the present life to the most feels wow but all of a sudden you think
Will this relationship continue?
Surviving together without any deeds is quite difficult and a relationship without stress and arguments is currently unavailable among everyone.
Never let problems to be solved to become more important than a person to be loved.
In every relationship at times, you get a thought whether my partner likes me like before?
In such case, you have to sit and talk because respect and affection should be there in all the relationship. The opposite of respect, affectation is criticism or voice tone judgement. If you feel like the words you speak or conveyed in a different tone then just take time and talk to your partner.
Instead of accepting things just like that discuss what lies behind those negative messages. Even if you receive such negative messages is also a mistake. As soon as you feel disrespectful to tell your partner that you feel uncomfortable and drifted apart.
The next main issue is a lack of power. Power balance means both of you have power and equal rights to talk about an issue. And if you feel like your partner is ruling you then it’s wrong and there you can rise up your voice and solve them right there.
“Problems in a relationship occur because each person is concentrating on what is missing in the other person”
Everyone needs their own independence as well as connection with their partner.
In a relationship, it is demeaning to constantly seek your partner’s approval. In such relationships, real caring, depth or even love is missing.
If you feel that you’re unsafe emotionally or physically then there is a chance of breakage in bonds between both. So there you have to understand and know about your partner’s mindset and talk to them regarding this and solve the problem.
Getting emotional and angry will never give you a solution. Over emotion is either aggressive or defensive. It’s in your hands whether you both are developing anger between both or love among each other.
At the same time, people think staying silent during controversies is safe but actually not.
Staying silent during controversies will be stressful for you and the situation will never have an end.
“When you don’t talk, there’s a lot of stuff that ends up not getting said”.
What all changes will happen because of conflicts?
Relationship conflict can be a significant source of stress. The conflicts in the relationship can negatively affect health in several ways. This conflict can affect you physically and mentally.
If either one in the relationship whose anger is suppressed and unacknowledged is very unhealthy.
Never assume things and fight for it because your assumption might go wrong so unless you knew it well avoid arguing. Assumptions are the terminators of relationship.
“Every relationship has its own problems. But sometimes what makes it perfect is if you still want be together, when things go the wrong way”.
